READ MORE: Things You Only Know If Your Boyfriend Is Black And You're Not There weren’t any mixed race families on and the most famous black pop star in the world was referred to in mainstream media as the "Scary” one.

One is named after Nathan Bedford Forrest, a lieutenant general in the Confederate Army. Both are men I would trust to raise and protect my son should the need arise. Or wonder whether Justin Timberlake’s prowess on the dance floor translated into, well, other areas. It was not a hard-and-fast rule, as in: I don’t date white guys.

When Han Song first met Sophie in a pub, he thought she was gorgeous ... "I thought oh well, I'm Asian, probably she's not interested." He was wrong. Han had only dated Korean women in the past and thought dating a white woman was "a fantasy".

Sophie found Asian men attractive but says it was shared values that was most important.

I’m black or brown, depending on who you ask, and I mainly date white guys.

I have no idea why and it’s definitely not a conscious choice.